My Birthday!

I share my birthday with a Desperate Housewife, hot male model, crazy female rapper with cotton candy hair, a Hobbit, a one hit wonder, 80’s blond actress who played an alien and drank batteries & an 18 year old who I have never heard of.

Not a bad crowd.  None where born on my day, though.

I have had a nice birthday so far.  Received some nice gifts from my staff. Flowers and a cake. Everyone wishing me a happy birthday.

All in all, I can’t complain. I will take myself out on Sunday to celebrate for real, by myself.

Happy birthday to me ee ee!!!!

The Culture of Greatness

It’s the most important thing a leader can do because culture drives behavior, behavior drives habits and habits create the future. As the leaders at Apple say, “Culture beats strategy all day long.”

When you create a culture of greatness you create a collective mindset in your organization that expects great things to happen-even during challenging times. You expect your people to be their best, you make it a priority to coach them to be their best and most of all you create a work environment that fuels them to be their best.

A culture of greatness creates an expectation that everyone in the organization be committed to excellence. It requires leaders and managers to put the right people in the right positions where they are humble and hungry and willing to work harder them everyone else. A culture of greatness dictates that each person use their gifts and strengths to serve the purpose and mission of the organization. And it means that you don’t just bring in the best people, but you also bring out the best in your people. If you are thinking that this sounds like common sense, it is. But unfortunately far too many organizations expect their people to be their best but they don’t invest their time and energy to help them be their best nor do they create an environment that is conducive to success. They want great results but they are not willing to do what it takes to create a culture of greatness.

A culture of greatness requires that you find the right people that fit your culture. Then you coach them, develop them, mentor them, train them and empower them to do what they do best. As part of this process you develop positive leaders who share positive energy throughout the organization because positive energy flows from the top down. You also don’t allow negativity to sabotage the moral, performance and success or your organization. You deal with negativity at the cultural level so your people can spend their time focusing on their work instead of fighting energy vampires. And you find countless ways to enhance communication, build trust and create engaged relationships that are the foundation upon which winning teams are built.

If creating a culture of greatness sounds like a lot of work, it is, but not as much work as dealing with the crises, problems and challenges associated with negative, dysfunctional and sub-par cultures. While most organizations waste a lot of time putting out fires you can spend your time building a great organization that rises above the competition.

  • My boss/friend sent me this and it is really great.  She didn’t write it, but we will she if she follows it.   In every endeavor I wish to uphold “The Culture of Greatness.”

Admiration/Criticism

“My admiration of one thing is not a direct criticism of another.  There is room in my heart to like/love them both.” – Me

How many times have you heard someone say that they love someones dress only to think to your self, well, why don’t they like my dress. Or, have you heard someone say that they are a great manager and think to your self, They must think I am an awful manager.  I am guilty of it to.

Just because someone admires something in front of you doesn’t mean they are secretly criticising you for that same thing.  Often times, please who exclaim they admire something is just that.  They like something.  Not inspite of something else.

Just because I say he is a good golf instructor doesn’t mean I don’t think you are good either. Just like because you say you need to hire a manager doesn’t mean I am a bad manager.

Please say things all the time and it is frutile to start thinking what people mean by what they say.  You start doing that and you automatically are going to think the worst because that is what people do.

Next time  you hear someone praise someone else, especially when it is something that is dear to you, say to yourself that it has nothing to do with me.  More times then not it doesn’t.  Don’t look more into what they say beyond the words that actually come out of their mouth.

Or, you could think of it as you are good at that something as well and that is what the person is comparing it to.  It is because of your talents that someone has the ability to recognize what is good.  I can measure who is a dancer, speaker, manager, friend, boyfriend, lover.  Because you set such a good example.  Why even consider the alternative.  That is a more positive and personal inspiring way to look at the things that people say.

But, remember, you are good, kind, funny, smart, attractive and nice person. And so are you!!!